Wealth, Status and Personality... oh my!

The article by Thundercat...

Everyone has an insecurity they have that makes them think they are unattractive. Even SHB10s have this problem. Guys see a HB9 and their attraction mechanisms spark in their head like crazy, men are visually natured. Because men are visually natured this makes us very critical of our appearance. We always think there is something on us that is making us feel we are ugly... I believe women do this too, but hide it much better. In fact I know they do, thats why they spend hours buying 1 pair of jeans. We get so in our own heads (I do atleast) that we are too this and that and we feel unworthy of the attention from the HBs. So, that is something we can work on together.

If the above paragraph were true, then no one would be able to attract women at all and the human race would not exist. Think about it, there would be too much doubt. Women in this day and age want a strong confident man, and if they are making babies with one that isn't their replication value took over, which is desire less for a woman and she will be unhappy in that relationship and will probably cheat.

From now on, look at couple when you are out. Say to yourself, do you think that guy's looks are worthy of that girls he is with? Most of the time, here I would say that is true, at a university. But, in the "real world" where you need "real game" not social circles... I doubt it. You'll see 8's and 9's with 3-6's guys. Thats just the way it works. Why will you see ugly ass guys with hot women? Because men are visually natured. For men, beauty is the exception not the standard. We don't have to be HB10s to attract them!!! There is clearly a deeper factor... but what is it? What can we rely on as men?

Women are attracted to men mainly for these three reasons; Wealth, Social Status and Personality.

Wealth, this shows women that men can provide the "provider" status. That is a sure fire way to get attention from an HB.... but... what woman or even human being doesn't LOVE being pampered? For nothing... maybe an accasional fuck on the side? Well, women love to fuck more than men so it's win-win for the HB. Now, I see why you see ugly ass AFCs with HB9/10 wives... damn. The problem with this is though... Not every PUA is rich. So, this is a unique trait to have, wealth. Don't be an ATM machine for women. HBs will think you are "buying" your way into a lay, and you won't have a spine if you are a provider for an HB when you are really poor.

Social Status... all you need to get laid over and over again in college, thanks to fraternities and athletic parties. What is status? You could say status is an important job, you are famous some how, all the respect you get from your peers, throwing a kick ass party, being in-field and talking to everyone and *bed room eyes*. If you have status, you have attraction... because you are naturally attractive because women pick up on social hierarchies. The hard part is conveying this effectively. They have to sense it... like the force. Not everyone has high status, in fact very few people do. So how do these medium to low status people still get lays???

PERSONALITY.

Personality, think about it. The thing about personality is that anyone can use it to attract a woman. The great thing about personality is, it doesn't cost a thing and it doesn't matter what your social circle is like. Having an attractive personality is the best way for a man to get an HB interested in him. Be able to make a woman laugh, that will turn her on more than being a big guy with big 'ol muscles. Personality is something that takes time but can be developed to make yourself anything you want to be. It is amazing how "losers" can become "rockstars" (Style). It is also amazing how losers can become rockstars all the sudden in the eyes of their friends with the help of women tweaking their personality just a little bit.

Women are SLAVES TO EMOTION. Your PERSONALITY is the METHOD by which you trigger EMOTIONS inside of a WOMAN. The better your personality, the better you're able to make a woman feel.

How do we achieve this? Work on your confidence. The more confident you are, the more confident you are in your self, and the better you will convey your personality... which will be used to attract women. Work on your social skills, this will help you be more relaxed and fun around women, and this time will create new opportunities to ignite attraction. Also, being more confident will make you more relaxed in social situations because you will appear as if you have been there before. Then, make a strong emotional connection to a woman because it is the best way to get a woman emotionally attached to you.